May 30, 2025
Tears, Toasts, and Ties: Gifts for the Father of the Bride
Whether he’s delivering a killer speech or just trying not to cry, here’s what he deserves in return.
Dads out there — if you're lucky enough to have a daughter one day, there's an inevitable moment on the horizon: walking her down the aisle and handing her off to her life partner (if she decides to get married — and if you approve of the person, or at least pretend to).
Being the father of the bride isn’t just about opening your wallet when she gets engaged and closing it once the DJ packs up. Oh no, it’s a full-on emotional and logistical marathon. Traditionally, Dad walks her down the aisle, gives a heartfelt (or hilarious) toast at the reception, and sometimes even moonlights as an unofficial wedding planner. But beyond all that, it’s a deeply personal role — one that symbolizes love, support, and the bittersweet joy of watching your little girl step into a new chapter (while you silently wonder how she grew up so fast).
From the moment your daughter is born, the countdown begins: college fund, wedding fund — you name it. And while Dad’s busy toggling between spreadsheets for the open bar, rehearsal dinner, and venue costs, the very least he deserves is a solid keepsake to remember the day — or at the very least, something sharp to wear while giving her away and crying discreetly into his boutonniere.
Set Him Up for Success (Literally)
For the dad who always asks, “What does this even match with?” — our style sets are here to save the day (and his outfit). Designed to take the guesswork out of what to wear with a suit, they’re especially clutch during wedding season, when logistics are already enough to juggle.
One less thing for him to plan or budget for? Yes, please. Whether he’s into sports sets like basketball or tennis, or prefers florals and a cheeky adult beverage motif, there’s a set to suit every kind of dad — even the fashion-confused ones.
Gifts He’ll Wear on the Big Day — and Beyond
Your dad getting all dapper for the big day might be a once-a-year spectacle — or just another Sunday for the guy. Either way, it’s a prime opportunity to gift him something he’ll actually use. Think: practical, keepsake-worthy, and maybe even office-appropriate.
A solid black grosgrain bow tie? Perfect for witnessing the nuptials and pulling off a James Bond moment at the next company banquet. Tie bars? Always a win. Honestly, has any dad ever said, “No thanks, I’ve got too many of those”? Doubt it.
And don’t forget black socks. They're the Swiss Army knife of footwear essentials — wedding, work, workout... you name it, they’ll show up and do the job.
Thank-You Gifts Dad Will Actually Use
Your dad’s pen — the one he got from his boss a few years ago for that big raise — is probably collecting dust somewhere in the back of a drawer. So let’s think of something a little more memorable to say thank you for helping organize this special day.
A brown leather catchall tray is perfect for the dad who “loses everything” (wallet, keys, dignity during a dad joke). It keeps him organized and out of the daily sauce.
If he’s a tie guy, a sleek travel tie case is a thoughtful nod to his collection — and saves him from stuffing silk into a carry-on like it's laundry.
And finally, a nice metal shoe horn. Hear us out: it’s wildly underrated. Every time he uses it, he'll remember getting it as one of his wedding gifts...and silently thank you for making shoe-wrangling a little less dramatic.
The Timeless Gift of Cufflinks for Dad
Cufflinks are heirlooms — or at least they can be. That tradition has to start somewhere, so why not with a gift for Dad? Who knows — 30 years from now, after your wedding, he might be passing them down to your son. That’s the quiet power of these tiny accessories.
Sure, they keep your shirt cuffs together, but they also say something about you — like “I appreciate the finer things” or “I really, really love dinosaurs and wine.” Whether dad is a quirky collector or a cufflink purist who just wants a classic gold pair, it’s a stylish and thoughtful way to say “thanks” — without having to get all mushy about it.
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