Wedding season is in full swing, and while we like to pretend it’s all about one magical day, the truth is — it’s a year (sometimes more) of planning, spreadsheets, and group chats no one asked for.
Honestly, it’s less like a sprint to the altar and more like a marathon, only instead of running shoes, you’re in dress shoes that — if the universe is kind — won’t leave you blister-ridden by the end of the evening.
You’ve RSVP’d. You’ve claimed your plus one. Now comes the real question: what are you actually going to wear? The pre-wedding checklist is no joke. For example:
- What footwear works for a bachelor party bar crawl? (Asking for your ankles.)
- Am I giving a speech at the rehearsal dinner? (If so, I need a blazer with an interior pocket for my speech. And a backup joke. Or five.)
- Is this wedding happening at a courthouse, on a beach, or in the middle of a field that doubles as a mosquito breeding ground?
These are the kinds of things that can keep a person up at night. That, and forgetting to buy a gift. (Pro tip: cash is never awkward.)
Now, the bad news: we can’t help you write your speech or avoid small talk with your ex’s cousin at Table 14. The good news? We can help you look great, leading up to the big day, the night before, and the ceremony itself.
So, whether you’re the man, the best man, or just your buddy’s unofficial hype man, here are three looks to keep you styled and dialed for every pre-wedding event and the big day.
Bachelor Night
When it comes to a bachelor’s party, versatility is the name of the game. You and the fellas might be sitting down for a nice dinner around 7, so a Brown Linen Blazer will get you through the door — and keep you ventilated through a multi-course meat sweat marathon. Pair it with our Ribbed Sweater Camel-Colored Polo, which not only plays nicely with the blazer’s deep tone but also stays sharp as the night unfolds.
Let’s be honest — the point of the evening is to bounce around. The polo keeps you looking pulled together, whether you’re bar-hopping, shooting pool, or following wherever the group chat chaos leads you.
Since the earthy palette works smoothly with neutral pants, don’t be afraid to spice it up with a pocket square. If you’re ditching the tie, show you’re here for a good time, not a long time, with a dainty floral square.
The Rehearsal Dinner
For the final walkthrough — the day before the nuptials — you’re at a dinner where the soon-to-be newlyweds get all misty-eyed over shared memories and maybe an overcooked filet. It’s a sentimental stroll down memory lane before they say “I do” the next day. While rehearsal day vibes are usually pretty relaxed, that’s not an excuse to show up in open-toed sandals and jeans that look like they lost a fight with a weed whacker.
Go for a linen suit instead. It’s breathable, stylish, and shows you put a little extra effort into the special weekend. Swap the standard white dress shirt for a Light Blue Oxford Shirt. Why? One, the soft blue plays beautifully with dark brown linen. And two, an OCBD is more laid-back, which fits the occasion’s chill-but-classy tone.
Since the outfit leans simple and streamlined, don’t be afraid to throw in a printed pocket square. It’s a small touch with big charm — like the fashion equivalent of a well-timed toast.
The Ceremony
This is it. The finish line. Adrenaline’s pumping, eyes are locked on you, and everything’s moving in cinematic slow-mo. You practice how you play, right? So yeah, you wore the linen suit to the rehearsal dinner — intentional. A suit has purpose, and that’s the secret power of the dress shirt.
Yesterday it was the light blue oxford; today, you’ve stepped it up with a crisp White Pinpoint Dress Shirt and a featherweight Solid Silk Shantung Navy Tie. Classic. Reliable. The navy-and-brown combo isn’t just office-friendly — it’s wedding gold. It’s been the go-to for decades and will be long after we’re just tasteful ghosts in vintage photos.
But today isn’t just about looking sharp — it’s about showing up. So keep the pocket square clean and simple: white with a navy border to pull it all together. You’ve done your part, now go enjoy the reception, demolish that cake, and finally — finally — catch up on the sleep you’ve been meaning to get since the engagement party.
Here’s to the newlyweds — and to suits with staying power.
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